the future or any point in the past, you are projecting a part of your
consciousness into an imagined dream-reality which ultimately
holds no substance for objective reality; our thoughts and dreams
about our life do not exist or have objectivity in comparison to
direct experience.
Consequently, for most untrained minds, they usually lose most
of their awareness from the present moment, due to giving too
much focus to the content of their mind; this is a significant obstacle
when approaching the art and practice of astral projection, because
if we are not going to be aware of and appreciate the present
moment in the physical, then how do we expect to do that while
out of body when we want to appreciate the present moment of the
astral? On top of this, one has to figure out how to move their
awareness out of body in the first place; this isn't so easy if the mind
is scattered. This is why meditation and prolonged concentration is
essential.
So, this is the first step, developing a habit of grounding your
awareness in the here and now and not letting yourself excessively
daydream. Catch yourself daydreaming throughout the day, and
you will most likely catch yourself daydreaming in your dreams at
night. The party you will attend next week does not exist yet, and
whatever you think about it will only ever be a dream. Everyone
attending the party can imagine what it will be like, but the
experience will always be different compared to when you actually
attend it. In the same way, we imagine what our life should be like
and become disappointed in it when it doesn't turn out the way we
dreamed of, only furthering our entanglement deeper into the
labyrinth of the mind with all its complex emotions, reactions and
desires. Similarly, yesterday happened, and you can recall it
through memory, but if you carry on analysing yesterday, perhaps
you will realise someone was mean to you, and you become
offended and upset. Adding this 'personalisation' onto memories of
the past is also a form of dreaming that we can become identified